Quick binary choices that spark fast conversations. Ask players to pick between two items and share why — perfect for meeting warm-ups and remote team check-ins.
Best forRemote Teams, Meetings, Quick Check-ins
Players2–30+
Time5–10 min
FormatVerbal / Poll
DifficultyEasy
How to Play
This or That is a fast, simple icebreaker that asks players to choose between two items — coffee or tea? Summer or winter? Cats or dogs? Each choice reveals a little about someone's personality and preferences. It is perfect for quick warm-ups and works in almost any setting.
Step-by-Step Instructions
Display or read a "This or That" prompt.
Everyone picks their choice — no middle ground!
Optionally, ask a few people to explain their pick.
Move to the next prompt. Play as many rounds as you like.
Tips for Hosts
Keep the pace quick — this game works best when it moves fast.
If you are hosting a meeting, use 2–3 prompts as a quick warm-up before the agenda.
For in-person groups, have people move to different sides of the room based on their choice.
Create your own prompts that are relevant to your team or group.
Best Use Cases
Meeting warm-ups: Start with 2–3 prompts in under 3 minutes.
Remote teams: Share the tool on screen and have everyone type their answer in chat.
Quick check-ins: A single prompt as a conversation starter before a one-on-one.
Classroom brain breaks: Give students a mental reset between lessons.